Do match ao date: a tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha em mulheres que buscam relacionamentos com homens pelo Tinder em Santa Maria - RS
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Resumo: | For just over a decade, companies have invested in social networking sites and applications and have turned flirting into something more discreet and private, while providing their users a broader desire management. Thinking about it, this work wants to debate the perspective that the same technology that made real the free exercise of flirting, also started to raise new fears in its users, especially among women. Based on an ethnographic inquiry undertaken from participant observation and interviews with women users of the dating app Tinder in Santa Maria-RS, and also in dialogue with theories which deal with emotions, digital media and urban legends, I propose a reflection on whether there is, and how it happens, a tension between fear, desire and shame in the searches of these women for partners in the application. I discuss these sociabilities considering that these women live in a society in which gender violence, especially domestic violence, practiced by close harassers, is a reality widely spread in media. I have identified throughout the fieldwork that these women feel more comfortable flirting with the application, but they still suffer from the stigma of taking initiative to search for a partner. Furthermore, influenced by the mediatization of violence, they fear being victims of the legendary figure of the Internet psychopath, broadly exploited by news and cinema, even though statistics show that the perpetrator of women in Brazil is, in the great majority of cases, a known man of the victim. This fear hampers the relationships of these women with men they know on the application and troubles them to take a number of precautions before leaving for the face-to-face date, strongly influencing their sociabilities inside and from the tool. |
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2019-11-11T12:28:39Z2019-11-11T12:28:39Z2019-02-18http://repositorio.ufsm.br/handle/1/18875For just over a decade, companies have invested in social networking sites and applications and have turned flirting into something more discreet and private, while providing their users a broader desire management. Thinking about it, this work wants to debate the perspective that the same technology that made real the free exercise of flirting, also started to raise new fears in its users, especially among women. Based on an ethnographic inquiry undertaken from participant observation and interviews with women users of the dating app Tinder in Santa Maria-RS, and also in dialogue with theories which deal with emotions, digital media and urban legends, I propose a reflection on whether there is, and how it happens, a tension between fear, desire and shame in the searches of these women for partners in the application. I discuss these sociabilities considering that these women live in a society in which gender violence, especially domestic violence, practiced by close harassers, is a reality widely spread in media. I have identified throughout the fieldwork that these women feel more comfortable flirting with the application, but they still suffer from the stigma of taking initiative to search for a partner. Furthermore, influenced by the mediatization of violence, they fear being victims of the legendary figure of the Internet psychopath, broadly exploited by news and cinema, even though statistics show that the perpetrator of women in Brazil is, in the great majority of cases, a known man of the victim. This fear hampers the relationships of these women with men they know on the application and troubles them to take a number of precautions before leaving for the face-to-face date, strongly influencing their sociabilities inside and from the tool.Há pouco mais de uma década, empresas investem em sites e aplicativos de relacionamentos e transformam a paquera em algo mais discreto e privado, ao mesmo tempo em que proporcionam a seus usuários um agenciamento mais amplo do desejo. Pensando nisso, esse trabalho quer debater a perspectiva de que a mesma tecnologia que proporcionou o exercício livre da paquera também passou a despertar novos temores em seus usuários, sobretudo entre as mulheres. Com base em uma investigação etnográfica empreendida a partir de observação participante e entrevistas com mulheres usuárias do aplicativo de relacionamentos Tinder em Santa Maria-RS, e em diálogo com teorias que tratam de emoções, mídias digitais e lendas urbanas, proponho uma reflexão sobre se há, e como se dá, uma tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha nas buscas dessas mulheres por parceiros no aplicativo. Discuto essas sociabilidades considerando que essas mulheres vivem uma sociedade em que a violência de gênero, sobretudo a doméstica, praticada por agressores próximos, é uma realidade amplamente midiatizada. Identifiquei, ao longo do trabalho de campo, que essas mulheres se sentem mais à vontade para flertar pelo aplicativo, mas ainda sofrem com o estigma de tomarem a iniciativa da busca por um parceiro. Além disso, influenciadas pela midiatização da violência, elas temem ser vítimas da lendária figura do psicopata da internet, amplamente explorada pelas notícias e pelo cinema, mesmo que as estatísticas mostrem que o agressor de mulheres no Brasil é, na imensa maioria dos casos, um homem conhecido da vítima. Esse medo obstaculiza as relações dessas mulheres com os homens que conhecem pelo aplicativo e faz com que elas tomem uma série de precauções antes de partir para o encontro face a face, influenciando intensamente suas sociabilidades na e a partir da ferramenta.porUniversidade Federal de Santa MariaCentro de Ciências Sociais e HumanasPrograma de Pós-Graduação em Ciências SociaisUFSMBrasilSociologiaAttribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivatives 4.0 Internationalhttp://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nc-nd/4.0/info:eu-repo/semantics/openAccessEmoçõesMídias sociaisViolênciaLenda urbanaEmotionsSocial mediaViolenceUrban legendCNPQ::CIENCIAS HUMANAS::SOCIOLOGIADo match ao date: a tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha em mulheres que buscam relacionamentos com homens pelo Tinder em Santa Maria - RSFrom match to date: the tension between fear, desire, and shame on women seeking relationships with men on Tinder in Santa Maria - RSinfo:eu-repo/semantics/publishedVersioninfo:eu-repo/semantics/masterThesisAlmeida, Francis Moraes dehttp://lattes.cnpq.br/8180956076012731Beleli, Iara Aparecidahttp://lattes.cnpq.br/1117543612370230Balieiro, Fernando de Figueiredohttp://lattes.cnpq.br/1754073430664136http://lattes.cnpq.br/2110254258350138Carvalho, Carolina Adolfo de700200000009600bc96f5ca-ecf3-44b0-9766-91017f417c99e2637865-71ab-4be3-b9f2-33575f7feca5b12c3a53-7414-4ab6-84a2-9a750f6001913d7ffe16-3385-4d7f-befb-20793a803ad3reponame:Repositório Institucional Manancial UFSMinstname:Universidade Federal de Santa Maria (UFSM)instacron:UFSMORIGINALDIS_PPGCS_2019_CARVALHO_CAROLINA.pdfDIS_PPGCS_2019_CARVALHO_CAROLINA.pdfDissertação de Mestradoapplication/pdf7656920http://repositorio.ufsm.br/bitstream/1/18875/1/DIS_PPGCS_2019_CARVALHO_CAROLINA.pdfc2f80ae39e39e6ce7041ad9b0f2541a8MD51CC-LICENSElicense_rdflicense_rdfapplication/rdf+xml; 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Do match ao date: a tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha em mulheres que buscam relacionamentos com homens pelo Tinder em Santa Maria - RS |
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From match to date: the tension between fear, desire, and shame on women seeking relationships with men on Tinder in Santa Maria - RS |
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Do match ao date: a tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha em mulheres que buscam relacionamentos com homens pelo Tinder em Santa Maria - RS |
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Do match ao date: a tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha em mulheres que buscam relacionamentos com homens pelo Tinder em Santa Maria - RS Carvalho, Carolina Adolfo de Emoções Mídias sociais Violência Lenda urbana Emotions Social media Violence Urban legend CNPQ::CIENCIAS HUMANAS::SOCIOLOGIA |
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Do match ao date: a tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha em mulheres que buscam relacionamentos com homens pelo Tinder em Santa Maria - RS |
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Do match ao date: a tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha em mulheres que buscam relacionamentos com homens pelo Tinder em Santa Maria - RS |
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Do match ao date: a tensão entre o medo, o desejo e a vergonha em mulheres que buscam relacionamentos com homens pelo Tinder em Santa Maria - RS |
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Carvalho, Carolina Adolfo de |
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Carvalho, Carolina Adolfo de |
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Almeida, Francis Moraes de |
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Beleli, Iara Aparecida |
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http://lattes.cnpq.br/1117543612370230 |
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Balieiro, Fernando de Figueiredo |
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http://lattes.cnpq.br/1754073430664136 |
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Carvalho, Carolina Adolfo de |
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Almeida, Francis Moraes de Beleli, Iara Aparecida Balieiro, Fernando de Figueiredo |
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Emoções Mídias sociais Violência Lenda urbana |
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Emotions Social media Violence Urban legend |
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For just over a decade, companies have invested in social networking sites and applications and have turned flirting into something more discreet and private, while providing their users a broader desire management. Thinking about it, this work wants to debate the perspective that the same technology that made real the free exercise of flirting, also started to raise new fears in its users, especially among women. Based on an ethnographic inquiry undertaken from participant observation and interviews with women users of the dating app Tinder in Santa Maria-RS, and also in dialogue with theories which deal with emotions, digital media and urban legends, I propose a reflection on whether there is, and how it happens, a tension between fear, desire and shame in the searches of these women for partners in the application. I discuss these sociabilities considering that these women live in a society in which gender violence, especially domestic violence, practiced by close harassers, is a reality widely spread in media. I have identified throughout the fieldwork that these women feel more comfortable flirting with the application, but they still suffer from the stigma of taking initiative to search for a partner. Furthermore, influenced by the mediatization of violence, they fear being victims of the legendary figure of the Internet psychopath, broadly exploited by news and cinema, even though statistics show that the perpetrator of women in Brazil is, in the great majority of cases, a known man of the victim. This fear hampers the relationships of these women with men they know on the application and troubles them to take a number of precautions before leaving for the face-to-face date, strongly influencing their sociabilities inside and from the tool. |
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